My First Threesome

Welcome to My First Threesome !

We are a site dedicated those those who are just beginning the journey in discovering if a threesome is right for them or those who are just starting out with having threesomes. Though most of the information is dedicated towards heterosexual couples who are married or in a committed relationship we do not judge. Since we are an inclusive site we welcome all types of individuals and couples.



Our mission is simple, to become the Web's premiere information site regarding threesomes for couples and single individuals who are just starting out, just had their first threesome, or are looking for more information. We plan to accomplish our goal through building an inclusive community where members can ask questions, share experiences, and get support with issues regarding threesomes. Thereby demystifying threesomes, promoting it as a vialble option for couples, and guide singles in making the right choice for them in regard to this choice.



We believe everyone regardless of background, experience, belief, or knowledge has something to share. Remember the only dumb question is the one that never gets asked. So, please come in and register if you are over 18 years of age.

Contest

For the Month of September submit your threesome journey or threesome experience. Winners will have their story featured on the home page.

In a mfm threesome who is in control

FMF Threesome - Who should be in 'the middle'

MFM Threesome - Who should be the one in 'the middle'

Did you know

Did you know if you are a registered member and you log in with your id that you can post your threesome journey and threesome experience to share with the rest of the world?

All you have to do is:

  1. log-in using your member id and password
  2. On the menu on the upper left hand side click on the link "blog"
  3. This will take you to another page. On the upper middle section there will be another link stating "Create New Blog Entry" and click on that
  4. Write your expereince

How important is developing a friendship before having a threesome

What type of threesome do you prefer

Browser issues

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Who do you choose for your third person

Visitor Background

Before the threesome occurs what would 'kill the deal'

Finding out that the third person lied about not being married
0% (0 votes)
Not showing up for the initial meeting
0% (0 votes)
Not wanting to practice safe sex
22% (4 votes)
Being to aggressive or pushing too much for sex
22% (4 votes)
Not wanting my partner or myself being present
22% (4 votes)
Pushing the need to have pictures from us / me
0% (0 votes)
Sending X-Rate photos or contact information before being requested
0% (0 votes)
Not respecting us as a couple
17% (3 votes)
Not respecting me as an individual
11% (2 votes)
Trying to rearrange schedule meetings
0% (0 votes)
Finding out they wrote about me / us on another site
6% (1 vote)
Total votes: 18

What do you hope to achieve by having a threesome

A chance to meet like minded individuals
6% (1 vote)
Opportunity to explore my / our sexuality
22% (4 votes)
Chance to learn more about each other
0% (0 votes)
An easy & quick way to get laid without the need for a relationship
0% (0 votes)
Chance to have sex with other people
6% (1 vote)
Opportunity to watch my partner having sex with other people
28% (5 votes)
Making a fantasy a reality
33% (6 votes)
Improved relationship
0% (0 votes)
Improved communication
0% (0 votes)
Hoping to prevent my partner from cheating
0% (0 votes)
Really have not given it much thought
6% (1 vote)
Total votes: 18

Currently I / we are having some problems overcoming

I am single male and struggling with finding a couple
15% (2 votes)
I am a single female struggling with finding a couple
8% (1 vote)
We are a couple struggling with finding a single male
8% (1 vote)
We are a couple struggling with finding a single female
23% (3 votes)
We are a couple who has an idea who we would like to invite but not sure how
8% (1 vote)
I am single and found a couple that is of interest. However I do not know how to ask?
8% (1 vote)
We are a couple struggling with defining our boundaries
15% (2 votes)
We are a couple struggling with determining mfm or fmf
8% (1 vote)
We are a couple struggling with resolving our difference in what we want for a threesome
8% (1 vote)
We are a couple struggling with if we should have a cuckold
0% (0 votes)
We are a couple struggling with if our threesome should be bi or straight
0% (0 votes)
Total votes: 13

Reason for wanting to have a threesome

MFM Poll: Women what was it like having sex with someone other than your partner

MFM Poll: Men what it like seeing your partner having sex with someone else

It was very erotic experience and I still get horny over the thought
58% (7 votes)
It was an incredible experience one that I will not forget
8% (1 vote)
It was a great experience and hope we do it again
8% (1 vote)
It was an average experience
0% (0 votes)
My first time I was a bit nervous and could really enjoy it
8% (1 vote)
The experience made me a bit 'anxious' and not sure if I would agree to do it again
0% (0 votes)
Overall it was upsetting
8% (1 vote)
I am having afterwards with the whole experience
0% (0 votes)
The experience caused our relationshp to end
8% (1 vote)
Total votes: 12

Links

Further threesome information from this site



The links below will take you off of this site and most sites require that you are at least 18 years of age. Please realize that the information contained on the site may not be accurate. Furthermore it is important if you have any questions that you follow the information on the site regarding how to contact the site regarding questions.

Couples photos

Couples sharing their photos.

Threesome photos

Come share your photos of your threesome.

Threesome basics - part 6

Whose should be in the middle?

Difference between cheating and having a threesome

Sometimes the line between cheating and having a threesome can become blurred. Other times couples and the third person do not understand the difference between the two. This publication will brief provide some opinions on how the two are different.

Red Flags or warning signs in replies to an ad

Introduction

For those just starting out it is not always easy to identify legitimate responses from those who have ulterior motives. In no way is this meant to be a complete or comprehensive list of red flags in regards to warning signs in replies. Instead it meant to introduce the idea that not all replies are legitimate and to help those starting out to understand some of the cues that may indicate a reply is not sincere, legitimate. Anytime a reply seems to be insincere it is best to report the member to the webmaster or site administrator.

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Red Flags in responses

Introduction

For those just starting out it is not always easy to identify legitimate responses from those who have ulterior motives. In no way is this meant to be a complete or comprehensive list of red flags in regards to warning signs in replies. Instead it meant to introduce the idea that not all replies are legitimate and to help those starting out to understand some of the cues that may indicate a reply is not sincere, legitimate. Anytime a reply seems to be insincere it is best to report the member to the webmaster or site administrator.

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Placing an ad on the internet for a threesome

Introduction

Forum Changes

For a period of time this site provided a link to http://www.forum.myfirstthreesome.co.uk for those who were interested in participating in a forum regarding threesomes. This site now contains a fourm that can be accessed from the Navigating menu titled 'Forums' which is located about 2/3 of the way down. Please note that those who have reigstered with this and and are logged in can post or respond to forum topics. Otherwise you will only be able to read the forum topic.